One would hope that information was digestible
and indeed helpful for the nourishing of us as
humans.
The felt and sensitive nature of our self-image is a
result of the media, our family's insight and our
friends who bluntly
speak of the 'truth'. Your self-image is build up as
a child or de-fuse as an adult. We all hold scars,
but with understanding
of ourselves and self -criticism we gradually fall for
the maxims of old; vanity, delusion, illusion, and
self- aggrandisement.
Much is besides our views of ourselves for the view
to put across to others.
We are criticisms, we are hurtful, we are deluded,
but sometimes we try to help others but realise that
there is no listening,
there is no help that you can give to yourself or the
person who listens to you. Self-development stops
with some and continues
with others to the new level. What we are is a brain,
with the fears and concerns of a human,
unlearning, unlistening and indeed
unwelcoming to who we talk to.
The basis of understanding is communication. The
need to feel comfortable and secure with the
human condition.
Best of luck, the self-esteem needs to grow when
others do not listen etc.